A Love Letter To Budapest.
Nadine Brachi | ELTE University, Budapest
In this blog post, my main aim is to convey why leaving the comfort of what I knew – Manchester, home, my friends, my dogs – for a new life in Budapest was one of the best decisions I could have made for myself and my future.
Joining the year abroad programme was always in my mind. Having spoken to fellow students who were preparing to leave or had recently returned, I was captivated by their excitement and how it inspired them. I was also fortunate enough to have several friends also considering a similar pathway as me. In fact, picking Budapest as my first choice stemmed from a deal I had made with my friend who studies at Manchester Metropolitan. Although she ended up in Hong Kong, I was able to share the thrill and, for some time, the knowledge that I would not be going in at it alone.
Studying in Budapest has come to be one of the best decisions I have ever made (so far). Now almost halfway through, I can see how the friends I’ve made, the city, and the university have each shaped me in meaningful ways. Not least in terms of my growth and development, especially in terms of confidence, I genuinely feel that had I carried on into my third year at Manchester, I would be quite different.
Touching on my friends first. Admittedly, I was in a very fortunate position as two other girls on my course were also placed on exchange at Budapest’s ELTE University. Sharing those initial nerves and going through the tribulations of visa issues and/or student finance was made easier because I knew that I was not alone, at least two other people were facing the same challenges. It also meant that we could look for a flat together and fly over together. These girls I now hold near and dear to me and having them by my side throughout the whole process made each transition incredibly smooth.
That aside, the warmth of Erasmus students is profound. Truthfully, even without arriving with two familiar faces, I’m confident I would have soon found them among the people I’ve met. Something you must remember is that when and wherever you arrive, everyone is in the same position. Everyone is nervous and slightly homesick but, this shared uncertainty is what makes everyone open and happy to introduce themselves. Getting to know other people is one of the easier tasks. In fact, it was during these weeks that I made some of my closest friends who have brought so much support, light, laughter, and fun into my life! These are friendships I will treasure forever.
Moving onto Budapest. As a city, there is so much to do. For those reading, you are likely students, so let me tell you, the night life here is amazing! Whether you prefer a more relaxed setting at a bar, to large clubs or event spaces, Budapest is has it covered. Some of my fondest memories have been made on these nights out. The city is also very accessible, both in terms of public transport and for friends or family who wish to visit. A comprehensive network of buses, trams, and metros runs throughout the night, making it easy to get around at any time. For visitors, Budapest’s airport is well connected and surprisingly affordable. Being relatively close to home (at least for me) also adds to the sense of security and comfort that living here provides.
Last, but by no means least, ELTE University. Comparative to Manchester, in which lecture halls often exceed two hundred students with little interaction, ELTE offers small and collaborative classes where teachers frequently ask for your input. Although this may sound daunting (as it was for me), this style change has helped develop my public speaking and confidence and has allowed me to develop my own views and beliefs, on the topical, pressing matters of today. There are also a multitude of course options that allow you to gain knowledge in niche areas. For example, I recently completed a module on refugee law and next semester intend to complete one on AI and technology! Stemming from both these points, I have really noticed a change in my approach to reading, writing essays, and critical analysis. Having struggled last year to write coherent arguments, this change in environment has made me become more thoughtful, precise, and confident in forming and defending my own arguments, as well as more curious about exploring diverse perspectives across different areas of law.
Having spoken so fondly of my experience, you are probably wondering what I haven’t liked. Truthfully, the only thing upsetting me is how quickly time flies. Almost at the halfway mark, there is still so much I want to do with what feels like so little time. A final piece of advice therefore, make the most of your stay and remain present!